THE REFORMED WITNESS HOUR"Thanksgiving with Contentment"Rev. Carl Haak(e-mail: Rev. Carl Haak) November 20, 2005; No. 3281 |
Dear
radio friends,
As we look forward to
celebrating our nations Thanksgiving Day this coming Thursday, we direct our
attention today to Gods Word in Philippians 4:11-13.
We read a very beautiful passage: Not
that I speak in respect of want: for I have
learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to
abound: everywhere and in all things I am
instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which
strengtheneth me.
Obviously today we want to pause
and ask the question: Am I thankful? Am I really thankful to God in my life? Does an awareness of all that God has done for me
live daily in my heart?
But there is an even more basic
question: Am I content with the way of the
Lord? Does the grace of contentment live in
me? You see, without contentment, you cannot
be thankful. And if we are not thankful, it
is because we are not living in contentment. For
when the grace of contentment dwells within our hearts, we are then ready to give thanks,
always and for everything.
Another way of putting it is
this. The Bible teaches that covetousness is
the opposite of thankfulness, or the opposite of contentment. If we, as sinners, are covetous, if the sin of
lusting after what God has not given to us and constantly wanting more and more, if that
lives in our hearts, then, obviously, we cannot give thanks to God for what we have. If we live our life dissatisfied with our looks,
with our home, with our money, with our job, with our wife, with our husband, with our
parents, with our car, with our clothes, we cannot give thanks. And if we do this Thursday, we give the thanks of
a hypocrite.
How often do we not go to the
closet and express our discontentment? A
closet filled with clothes and yet we come out saying, Theres nothing to
wear. Or, as a teenager, we go into the
cupboard and we say, Mom, theres nothing to eat, while the cupboard is
filled with food and boxes of goodies. We
have so much! But covetousness is a
sin, you see, that is present in prosperity. The
more that we have, the less that we will be satisfied, by nature, and the more we will
want and the less we will appreciate.
What is the answer for us as
Christians, swamped in prosperity today and so often bankrupted in thanksgiving? The answer is:
the grace of contentment. Desperately
we need to learn what it is to be content. For
only out of the soul where godly contentment is living, only there will one find the
delightsome activity of thanksgiving to God.
In this very beautiful chapter
(Phil. 4), it seems as if the apostle Paul and the saints at Philippi were falling over
each other in love and appreciation for each other. Paul
is writing from a Roman dungeon. In verse 10
we learn that the Philippians have sent to the apostle a gift. He says, your care of me hath flourished
again. But Paul was very careful. He does not want them to think that his
appreciation for the gift would imply that they had been tardy. He says, Ye lacked opportunity to send
it earlier.
And more. He does not want his mentioning how much he
appreciated the gift to be construed or to imply that he is in a desperate condition, that
he is discontent or wanting. He says to them,
Oh, my beloved Philippians, Im OK. Really,
truly, I am. I am not talking to you
today, he says, out of lack. All
is well with my soul. Even though I am in
this dungeon, I am content in the Lords way. In
fact, I would like to know what I can do for you.
What a confession of faith. Is that your confession today? Are you thankful?
Look down into your heart. Are you
content? Or are you covetous? Are our hearts like an empty drum, an empty oil
barrel? When it is dropped on a concrete
floor it clangs and it hurts our ears. Are
we like that empty barrel, complaining, angry, bitter, resentful? Or does a pleasant sound of praise come out of our
life because we are full? We are full of
Gods love and grace in our heart. We
have contentment, snd we express contentment through thanksgiving.
What is contentment? It is the opposite of covetousness. Covetousness is to lust after things as an end in
themselves and not to see that those things that God has given are a means whereby we
might serve God. Covetousness is insatiable. It is never filled up. It is an evil of attempting to satisfy oneself
with the things that God gives and not with God Himself.
It is the foolishness of believing that things are able to satisfy the soul. Jesus spoke of that, you remember? In Luke 12 the parable about the rich fool
who had his barns full at this time of the year and he said to himself, Soul, take
thine ease; eat and drink. He believed
that if he had these things, or especially if he had that new barn, then, when he had
everything that his heart could possibly fancy, he could find rest and he would be happy. The Lord said he was a fool.
We are, by nature, covetous. It makes no difference if we are rich or poor,
healthy of sick. By nature we always want
something different, something more, our fancy to be satisfied. We think that money, leisure, pleasure, jobs,
possessions will be the gateway to happiness of the heart.
That is covetousness.
Contentment is a grace that
comes from Jesus Christ. It is to be
satisfied with the earthly way He gives to me today and the circumstances that have not
come by chance but by my Fathers will. It
is based in the cross. It is to know a full
and complete pardon of sin. Then it is to
say, I have enough. It is enough to
have the love and forgiveness of my God. Therefore
I experience an inward joy and peace in the way that God leads me today and with the
provisions He gives to me.
Contentment is the eye of faith
that looks to God, who is the owner of everything and who has given earthly things to me
to care for. Contentment is the ear of faith
that hears all of Gods promises in the Word. And
contentment is the heart of faith that says, It is well. His way is perfect.
It is always good. He is leading me
to glory. All is well with my soul. Therefore I thank God for everything. Thanksgiving through contentment.
You see, then it will be an
all-inclusive thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is
not something that is to be done in parts. It
is not for some things. We are taught in the
Scriptures to give thanks for everything. The
apostle Paul, in the passage we are looking at today (Phil. 4), puts it this way. He says, I have learned, in whatsoever state
I am, therewith to be content (v. 11) whatever circumstances the will of God
places me in.
Now, we need to understand that
we are not talking here about indifference to a sinful way of life. No. But
we are talking about what comes to us in the will of God concerning the situations in our
life, whether that be health or sickness, freedom or prison, a single life or a married
life, our height, our looks, our money all that makes up my earthly way. Can you say, Lord, thanks! I am content with what You have given me. I am content because I see the great treasure of
the pardon of my sin and that everything now in my life is ordered by the hand of a
gracious and loving Father. Thanks!
Paul goes on to explain. He says, I know both how to be abased, and I
know how to abound
I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound
and to suffer need. To be abased means
to be brought low. Paul says he knows what it
is to be brought low. That happened often in
his life. He had been scorned and cast out by
men. He had been stoned and beaten. Yet, he says, though those are most difficult
things to endure, I am content. I am
content in knowing that it is the way of my Father. I
know how to be abased. And, he says,
I know how to abound, that is, to overflow.
There the Scriptures are talking about affluence, of enjoying more than what we
absolutely need in a given day. I
know, says the apostle, how to be abased and to abound
in all things I
have learned to be content, to abide in trust upon the God who cares for me. Then, out of that trust and love for Him, to
express thanks in every way.
Can you do that? Can you say, by the grace of God today, that you
are satisfied with the will of God and that you want only to serve Him in the way that He
chooses for you to take? It may be that He
leads you today in a way of adversity. Your
income as a family may be very tight. Or it
may be sickness. It may be concern for your
heart, for your heartbeat and your heart rhythm. It
may be great sorrow over your children they are not walking in the way of the Lord. It may be difficult and stressful situations in
your job. What are we to do?
Unbelief says concerning all of
those things: Be resentful. Shake your fist in Gods face. Feel hopeless.
Be angry at God. The world would say
to us, Well, be a stoic. Detach
yourself emotionally from all of these things. You
have to learn not to get hurt. You have to be
tough. Just bulldoze your way through. Others may say, We had better just be
depressed then over all those things that we cannot change.
We had better decide that we are not going to be happy.
The grace of contentment is that
we receive all of that from the hand of our God who has promised over the cross and grave
of His Son to give to us sufficient grace to serve Him in whatever situation He places us. It may be today that we are in a way of
prosperity. That might be more likely for
many of us. What then, should we be boastful
today? Shall we be proud? Shall we say on this Thanksgiving Day that is
ahead, Well, others could have as much as we do if only they were as diligent as we
are. See what we have achieved? See how diligent weve been? If you drive yourself to succeed in this country,
you can get there, you know. Is that
what we are going to say?
No! In the way of contentment I will not forget that
everything that I have and all that I am comes not from my strength but from God. The worst folly there is is to boast in ourselves. That is to forget the Lord.
I have learned, says
the apostle, in whatever place I am to be content.
That means that this grace of
contentment is not something that we are born with, but it is something that God has to
teach us. It is something that we are never
finished learning. Every child of God is
enrolled today in a school called Contentment. And
you never graduate. In fact, you are
constantly sent back for refresher courses. You
never get a degree in this school until you are taken from the earth to heaven. When you awake in righteousness, to see Him face
to face, then you will be perfectly satisfied. Until
then, God keeps you in school.
It is the profound work of God
to crucify our covetous, rebellious hearts constantly and to begin to teach them
submission to His will. It is a practical,
daily school. And the lessons are hard. It is just like trying to tame a German Shepherd
that has been beaten and chained and to make him into a manageable dog. You could sooner do that teach a dog that
has been beaten and chained and taught to be cruel you could easier calm him and
make him gentle than you could learn contentment. For,
by nature, we are ready to snap at God, snap at the wife, snap at the boss, at the house,
at the looks, at the kids nothing is any good!
I dont like it! The Lord
is not right. I cant accept this! By nature that is what we are always saying. We have to learn contentment.
The apostle said, I am
instructed to be content. I learn it. That word means to learn the secret. And it refers to the fact that this secret of
contentment can only be found in faith in Jesus Christ.
Contentment is a secret. It is a
mystery, apart from faith in Jesus Christ. You
will not learn it by getting a magnifying glass and, like an investigator, trying to solve
the riddle and trying to find some book that is going to teach you how to live the happy
and contented life off on a mountain or by a river stream.
No. God must open your eyes to this
secret thing that faith knows. God must give
us faith in Jesus, and then you will learn the secret of contentment. It is this. It
is to believe, on the basis of Gods own Word, that all the circumstances of my life,
both good and bad, joyful and sorrowful, both sickness and health, all of them are coming
to me from the hand of my Father for Jesus sake.
You see, contentment is something that was purchased on the cross and flows from
the cross. You learn contentment, like
everything else, by being brought to the foot of the cross.
Jesus earned it! It goes like this
(Rom. 8:32), He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how
shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
Here is the secret. God, says the
Christian, has loved me in Jesus Christ. He
has given me the greatest of all good. He has
given His own Son for my death that I perish not in hell.
Now, shall not this God, who has given me the greatest, also work all things in my
life for my eternal good? You see,
there is the secret. All things, says faith,
all circumstances, are in Gods hand working my good.
Do you believe that? Do you embrace that? Then you will be thankful for everything. Let us learn.
Do you abound today? Do you say, I have much more than I need. The Lord has been so good to me. Give thanks.
Are you abased today? Are you
struggling to make ends meet, to pay the bills and the debts? Perhaps you are on a sickbed, or perhaps you are
doctoring and no answer has been brought concerning your physical troubles, or perhaps
your heart is so heavy, or perhaps you are getting old and your body creaks and is
breaking down and you live in an old peoples home. Are you content?
Do you say, In Gods love abiding, I have joy and peace more than all
the wicked, though their wealth increase. In
His care confiding, I will sweetly sleep; for the Lord, my Savior, will in safety
keep? Do you say, Lord, Thou art
good. Thanks, Lord, thanks for
everything? You see, when contentment
begins to dawn in our hearts, then our mouths are loosed in thanksgiving.
But maybe you think this is all
an ideal. Oh, yes, you say, we expect to hear
something about Thanksgiving. And, yes, we
know that these verses are in the Bible and all these truths are in the Bible. But, it is really an ideal, right? We do not actually experience this, do we? We cannot really live this way. Maybe you say, Im not content. Anxiety gets a hold of me. I begin to obsess about certain things. It just gets hold of me and it controls my whole
day. Perhaps you say, Resentment
and anger and bitterness is like a chain. It
got a hold on my heart and now Im cynical. I
dont believe anymore in the peace that you are talking about. Or, perhaps:
Im lonely. I dont
like whats happening to me. Im
struggling. Sometimes God seems so far away. All that youre talking about I
dont believe it. Im afraid. You say, Well, that was a real nice pep
talk. Be content. Gods in control. Be thankful.
But now I have to go back to my life, and theres a struggle there, a great
struggle.
Child of God, this is not an
ideal. This is Gods Word. This is possible by His grace. No, we are not perfect. We are still on the battlefield. But there is the blessing of contentment and it is
a real blessing, today, for you and for me. There
is the peace and joy of resting, by faith, in God. And
there is now the gushing impulse to thank and to praise God. The apostle tells us how this is possible. I can do all things through Christ who
strengtheneth me. What is he saying? He is saying this.
I can be content through the strength of Christ in my soul. He did not say, I can be content by my own
strength, by my own personality, which is bubbly or positive. Im an A-type personality. No. And
he did not say, I can be content because Ive learned the secrets of coping,
anxiety management, and control. He did
not say, I can be content because I know that I have the strength to slug it out and
to stay with it. No, a thousand times
No. He did not say that. He said, Through Christ. The only possibility is Jesus Christ. It is not about you. It is about Jesus. He is able to make you content.
He comes now, by His Word, right
now, as you hear His Word in Philippians 4. He
speaks and all the waves and storms and winds of our objections are to be silent before
Him. He says, You can do all things
through Christ who strengthens you. It
is Christ who by His faithfulness infuses His grace and power into our lives. It is Christ who has loved us upon the cross. It is Christ who performs faithfully the will of
His Father. He pours power through the Holy
Spirit into us through His Word. He uses
means. He uses the church, the pure
preaching of the gospel, and the teaching of that gospel in the church. He uses prayer.
He uses the daily reading of the Word of God.
He uses Christian friends. He uses
many, many things. But He does it. I can do all things because He is the One
who is strengthening me. He is
strengthening me to do an amazing thing to be content, to have peace in my soul
over Gods way, to say, concerning all the circumstances of life: Lord, have Thine own way. And then, not only to leave it there but to go on
to the next step to give thanks. He
strengthens me today to thank Him. And now my
list of thanksgiving is very long. It
includes everything. Good and bad, sickness
and health everything, because it is all working my good under the power of my
Father.
Then, out of contentment arises
the sound of thunder, the anthem and the song of the church: Thanks be to God who hath given us the victory
through our Lord Jesus Christ!
Let us pray.
Father in heaven, work in us Thy children, this week, this Thanksgiving Day, and always, contentment, godly contentment, and out of it may there flow forth the thunder and the sweet anthem of thanks. In Jesus name, Amen.
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